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Slouching Toward Compersion

Jealousy has been a part of our journey into a polyamorous lifestyle from the beginning. The evolution of it is most clearly described through Ark, who has been getting what I can only explain as the...

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I Exist – Meditations on Polyamory, Relationships, and Jealousy

Blue talks about a new relationship being added to the mix, and how in polyamory sometimes it's difficult to detect where relationship definitions lie.The post I Exist – Meditations on Polyamory,...

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Sex, Orgasms, and Polyamory

Blue talks about the importance of sex in relationships monogamous and non-monogamous, and ease of orgasms.The post Sex, Orgasms, and Polyamory appeared first on Life on the Swingset.

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Poly Living – Children and Living Arrangements For the Polyamorous

Blue talks about many variations on Polyamorous living arrangements including children and co-habitationThe post Poly Living – Children and Living Arrangements For the Polyamorous appeared first on...

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False Sense of Security – A Polyamorous Relationship Experiences Growing Pains

Blue tackles growing pains of an ever evolving and shifting relationship landscape in her triad with Kitten and ArkThe post False Sense of Security – A Polyamorous Relationship Experiences Growing...

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Blue Falls In Love – A Polyamorous Beginning

Photo provided by Marco Gomes Hey sexy people, Cooper here. Blue came to me with a proposal, to document her journey into Polyamory. I told her to climb on up and take a swing. “I am definitely in love...

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A Big O – From First Orgasms to Multiple Orgasms

Blue takes us back to her first orgasm, how masturbation and orgasms have changed for her over the years, and orgasming with someone else.The post A Big O – From First Orgasms to Multiple Orgasms...

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Making Love & Losing Friends – Biases Against Polyamory

Blue comes up against the cold hard reality that some friends simply will not be able to deal with the fact that she's in a polyamorous relationship.The post Making Love & Losing Friends – Biases...

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My Prerogative (or, My 2nd O)

Blue spins an erotic tale of playtime with Kitten and a dildo.The post My Prerogative (or, My 2nd O) appeared first on Life on the Swingset.

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Lucky In Love – Baby Steps in Polyamory

How often do you walk around at work, or at the mall, or anywhere, and wonder if the people around you feel as lucky as you do? Is the person in the car next to you at the stoplight a swinger? Is the...

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I Shouldn’t Feel Guilty

Sometimes my husband makes me feel guilty about spending time with Kitten. He doesn’t do it on purpose, and he has gotten much better about it (mostly because we’ve talked about it over and over), but...

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Home – My Polyamorous Primary Partner

People ask us all the time why we got married, if we're not going to be exclusive. This is probably the question we get asked most often. For both of us, the answer is that we know we want to spend the...

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My Time – New Relationship Energy & Time Management in Polyamory

NRE and crushing. Relationships. Time. I've been thinking of those four words a lot, lately. Every poly is different. Right now, my poly includes me, my husband and my girlfriend in a V formation, with...

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(un)protected – A Broken Rule in Polyamory

The short version is that Ark broke a rule. It was an important rule that was there for everyone's safety and my sanity, but in the heat of the moment, he broke the rule. I felt betrayed, broken—and I...

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A Busy Poly Life – How YOU doin’?

Heya, non-monogs! How’s it swingin’? Is everybody’s life awesome and full of love? I’ve been a busy kitten. For a little while there, yeah, even too busy to blog–too busy to sit down and slather my...

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Moving In, Moving On – Becoming a Poly Household

In October, we were forced to leave our apartment and seek a different housing situation. This was a huge disruption to our life as it was (we expected to have until December, the natural ‘end’ of our...

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Girls! (Part One)

I am definitely a lesbian. I have definitely been a lesbian my whole life, but I didn’t know it until quite recently. I officially “came out” to myself in the beginning of 2012, after the last few...

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Girls! (Part Two)

Read Part I here I came out as a lesbian and polyamorous to my family (and the general world) around the same time. I kind of cheated—I deleted my Facebook account and made a new one. At first, I sent...

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Polyamory or Monogamy: To be perfectly honest…

I’m selfish. No, really, I am. But I use that to my advantage. It’s better now that I can admit it and I can tell people about it and I know what to ask and when it’s too much. I know it’s different...

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This Is Silly

I have been a Swingset-er for a long time, yet have barely any entries published here. That should change. That WILL change! Hello, non-monogs, curious vanillas, kinky bastards, fetishists, queers, and...

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